Not a 911 replacement. If your child is in immediate physical danger, call 911. Child & Family Services (CFS) can also be contacted for child welfare concerns.
It requests an earlier hearing date. If the judge agrees your situation qualifies, your hearing will be scheduled sooner than a standard Request for Order. Court processing is still required — check with the ex parte window when you file for a timeline.
Not a secret filing. You must notify the other party before submitting and formally serve them with your paperwork afterward.
May qualify
  • Child taken and not returned
  • Immediate physical danger to child
  • Parent about to leave state/country with child
  • Active court order violation harming the child
Does not qualify
  • Disagreement with parenting schedule
  • Difficult or uncooperative co-parent
  • Wanting to modify an existing order
  • Hearing date feels too far away

Courts can and do sanction parents who misuse the ex parte process. If unsure, speak with the Family Law Facilitator at your courthouse before filing.

Your county:
The Ex Parte Application Process — Step by Step
1
Prepare your declaration

You need a strong written declaration explaining the emergency. It must include: what happened, specific dates and details, why it cannot wait for a regular hearing, and what orders you are requesting.

For custody or visitation applications, your declaration must also include:

  • Detailed descriptions of the most recent incident(s) showing immediate harm to the child will result if the application is not granted
  • Specific dates of those incidents
  • Disclosure of any previous ex parte applications you have made on the same issue — and whether any orders were made on those requests
  • The name, address, and phone number of any attorneys involved in the case
  • Whether the current situation will change if your order is granted
Facts only. Vague or emotional declarations without specific facts are routinely denied. The judge needs concrete information — dates, places, witnessed behavior, direct quotes where possible. Stick to facts.
Tools to help: Use the Declaration Builder to format your declaration correctly on California pleading paper. Once drafted, use the AI Declaration Review to get specific feedback before you submit.
2
Gather and prepare your forms

Gather and complete the following forms. The FamLaw-107 (Declaration Re Notice) cannot be completed until after you have given notice in Step 3 — prepare everything else first.

Stay organized: Use the My Case Checklist to track which forms are downloaded, filled out, and submitted.
Timing: You must give notice to the other party before going to the courthouse. The time you give notice determines how long the court holds your paperwork before the judge reviews it — 10:00 a.m. is not a hard cutoff for submission, but giving notice before 10:00 a.m. on a court day starts the shortest hold period (24 hours). Giving notice after 10:00 a.m. extends the hold. See Step 4 for notice delivery methods and Step 6 for the full hold period breakdown.
Fees: Plan to pay a $60 ex parte fee plus a $60 or $85 Request for Order fee at the window. If you cannot afford the fees, complete the FW-001 fee waiver and include it in your package.
Sacramento — verify procedures directly with the court. Family court ex parte procedures at the William R. Ridgeway Family Relations Courthouse are specific to that courthouse. The steps in this guide reflect our best current understanding, but Sacramento family court rules are subject to change. Before filing, confirm current requirements directly with the court clerk or the Family Law Facilitator at 3341 Power Inn Road, Sacramento.
Timing: Sacramento County requires you to submit your application by 8:30 a.m. on the court day before the hearing. You must also give notice to the other party no later than 10:00 a.m. on the court day before the hearing. See Step 3 for notice details.
Fees: Plan to pay an $85 filing fee ($60 Request for Order fee + $25 for custody/visitation modification). If you cannot afford the fees, complete the FW-001 fee waiver and include it in your package.
Make 3 copies of everything before you leave the house. The courthouse will not make copies for you. Here is what each set is for: the clerk keeps one copy, you use a second copy to serve the other party (Step 6), and the third copy is for your own records. Show up without enough copies and you will be making a trip to a copy shop before you can proceed.
3
Give notice to the other party

Before going to the courthouse, you must contact the other party's attorney — or the other party directly if they are unrepresented — and give them copies of every document you are submitting. This is not a heads-up; you are giving them full transparency of what the judge will see. Notice is not the same as formal legal service.

Who to notify:

If they have an attorney: Notice goes to the attorney — not directly to the other party.
If unrepresented: Give notice directly to the other party.

What your notice must include:

  • That you are submitting an ex parte application, the time, and which courthouse
  • What orders you are requesting
  • Copies of all completed forms you are submitting
  • The FamLaw-206 (Notice Upon Ex Parte Application for Orders)
Give notice before 10:00 a.m. on the day you plan to submit. This starts the standard 24-hour hold once the court receives your paperwork. Giving notice after 10:00 a.m. extends the hold.
In Sacramento, give notice no later than 10:00 a.m. on the court day before the hearing.
Can't safely give notice? If contacting the other party poses a safety risk, document this on your FamLaw-107. Courts take the notice requirement seriously — skipping it without documented justification can result in denial.
4
How to deliver notice
  • In person: Hand-deliver all documents directly. Fastest and most reliable.
  • Email: Acceptable to an attorney if you have verified their email address. For an unrepresented party, only if they have given written consent to receive documents electronically — without that, personal delivery is required.
  • Text message: Not an acceptable method.
Document everything — the time, method, what you communicated, and how they responded (or that they did not). You will record this on the FamLaw-107 in the next step.
5
Complete your notice declaration

Once you have given notice, complete the FamLaw-107 (Declaration Re Notice Upon Ex Parte Application For Orders). This is a Contra Costa local form — not the statewide FL-303. It records exactly how you gave notice, what you communicated, when, and to whom. It is a required part of your submission package.

Be specific and accurate — the judge will read this form. Include the exact time you gave notice, the method used, the attorney's name or the other party's name, and what their response was (or that there was no response). The hold period the court applies to your paperwork is determined by what you report here.

Once you have given notice, complete the PR-E-LP-036 (Ex Parte Application and Declaration). This is the primary Sacramento local form — it serves as both your application and your notice declaration. If you served more than one person, attach PR-E-LP-043.

Be specific and accurate — the judge will read this form. Include the exact time you gave notice, the method used, who you contacted, and what their response was (or that there was no response).
6
Submit your application to the court

Bring your complete package to the Ex Parte Window at the Contra Costa Family Court on a court day (Monday–Friday, excluding court holidays). Submissions must be made in person — do not assume e-filing is available.

Why 10:00 a.m. matters: Submitting is not required by 10:00 a.m., but the time you gave notice determines the hold period. If you gave notice before 10:00 a.m. that morning, the shortest hold applies (24 hours). If you gave notice after 10:00 a.m., the clock doesn't start until 10:00 a.m. the next court day — adding a full day. Earlier notice means earlier review.

Your package must include all of the following, with 3 copies of each:

  • FL-300 — Request for Order
  • FL-305 — Temporary Emergency (Ex Parte) Orders (bring blank — the judge fills this out)
  • FL-105 — UCCJEA Declaration
  • FamLaw-107 — Declaration Re Notice (completed in Step 5)
  • FamLaw-206 — Notice Upon Ex Parte Application (your copy)
  • Your signed declaration — the factual narrative of the emergency: what happened, specific dates, why it cannot wait, and what orders you are requesting. Must be signed under penalty of perjury.
  • Cause for Ex Parte attachment — your separate urgency paragraph attached to FL-300 and FL-305
  • Copy of current custody orders — your most recent FL-340 or current judgment, if one exists
  • Any exhibits — text messages, photos, records, or other supporting documents
  • FL-311 — Child Custody & Visitation Attachment (if requesting a specific schedule)
  • FL-312 — Child Abduction Prevention Orders (if applicable)
  • FW-001 — Fee Waiver (if requesting one instead of paying fees)

Pay your fees at the window — $60 ex parte fee plus $60 or $85 Request for Order fee — or submit your FW-001 fee waiver.

What happens after you hand over your documents: The court holds your paperwork for a notice period to give the other party time to submit a response. How long depends on how you gave notice:
  • Personal notice before 10:00 a.m. → 24-hour hold
  • Personal notice after 10:00 a.m. → held until 10:00 a.m. next court day + 24 hours
  • Email or fax → held until 10:00 a.m. the next day + 2 additional court days
The court will call you when your paperwork is ready to be picked up. Do not expect a same-day decision, and note that court staff cannot tell you over the phone whether your application was granted or denied.
Courts are only open on court days. If you gave notice on a Friday morning and the weekend falls before the hold period ends, those days do not count.

In Sacramento, drop off your complete package at the William R. Ridgeway Family Relations Courthouse, 3341 Power Inn Road, Room 214, Sacramento, CA 95826. Submit by 8:30 a.m. on the court day before the hearing. Bring 3 copies of everything.

Your package must include all of the following, with 3 copies of each:

  • FL-300 — Request for Order
  • FL-305 — Temporary Emergency (Ex Parte) Orders (bring blank — the judge fills this out)
  • FL-105 — UCCJEA Declaration
  • PR-E-LP-036 — Ex Parte Application and Declaration (completed in Step 5)
  • PR-E-LP-043 — Additional Persons Served (if you served more than one person)
  • FL-E/LP-668 — Drop-Off Sheet (cover sheet for your package)
  • Your signed declaration — the factual narrative of the emergency: what happened, specific dates, why it cannot wait, and what orders you are requesting. Must be signed under penalty of perjury.
  • Cause for Ex Parte attachment — your separate urgency paragraph attached to FL-300 and FL-305
  • Copy of current custody orders — your most recent FL-340 or current judgment, if one exists
  • Any exhibits — text messages, photos, records, or other supporting documents
  • FL-311 — Child Custody & Visitation Attachment (if requesting a specific schedule)
  • FW-001 — Fee Waiver (if requesting one instead of paying fees)

Pay your filing fee of $85 ($60 Request for Order + $25 for custody/visitation modification) — or submit your FW-001 fee waiver.

Your proof of service must be filed with the court by 8:30 a.m. on the morning of the hearing. Be reachable by phone between 8:30 a.m. and noon on the hearing date — the court may call you.
Courts are only open on court days (Monday–Friday, excluding court holidays). Plan ahead if your deadline falls near a weekend or holiday.
7
Serve the other party with your application

After submitting your application, arrange for the other party to be formally served with everything you gave the clerk — your complete application package. This is formal service, not notice. You cannot serve your own documents.

Who can serve:

  • A professional process server
  • Any adult 18 or older who is not a party to the case
If they have an attorney: Serve the attorney. Personal service by a process server is the most reliable method. Email service is acceptable if you have verified their email address.
If they do not have an attorney: Serve the other party directly. Personal service is always acceptable. Email requires their written, documented consent to receive documents electronically (CCP 1010.6). Without that consent, use personal or mail service.
Unsure about current representation? Check whether a Substitution of Attorney (MC-050) has been filed in your case. Until it is, the attorney of record is still the official contact. When uncertain, serve both the attorney and the other party directly.
If DCSS is involved in your case: If the Department of Child Support Services (DCSS) has an open case, serve them as well — either directly or by asking the clerk whether the court will provide a courtesy copy. DCSS tracks support orders and enforcement, and keeping them informed avoids conflicts between your court order and any active DCSS case.
8
File your Proof of Service

Once your server has completed service, they must fill out a Proof of Service (FL-330) documenting exactly how, when, and to whom service was made. You must file the completed FL-330 with the court before your hearing.

Do not skip this step. If you show up to your hearing without a filed Proof of Service, the judge may delay or refuse to hear your case — even if service was actually completed. Filing the FL-330 is what proves it to the court.
Sacramento: Your Proof of Service must be filed by 8:30 a.m. on the morning of the hearing.
9
The judge reviews your application

During the hold period, the other party has the opportunity to submit a written response to the court objecting to your requested orders. The judge reviews both your application and any timely response before deciding.

The judge may grant the orders as requested, grant partial orders, or deny the request entirely. The court will call you when your paperwork is ready to be picked up — go to the courthouse to find out the outcome. Court staff will not tell you the result over the phone.

If temporary orders are granted, this is not the final decision. The judge is granting emergency relief only while the case moves forward. A formal follow-up hearing will be scheduled — the date depends on court availability, the calendar, and any holidays — where both parties appear and the judge decides whether to continue, modify, or end the temporary orders.

Two separate events: (1) Judge reviews application → may grant temporary orders. (2) The follow-up hearing where both sides are heard → date set by the court based on availability. Temporary orders stay in effect until that hearing. Use the Deadline Calculator to track your hearing date and all deadlines →
Sacramento — checking your results: You can look up your case outcome on the PCAS (Public Case Access System) at the Sacramento Superior Court website. Court staff will not give results over the phone.
10
If orders are granted — serve the signed orders

Once you pick up your paperwork and orders have been granted, you must serve the other party with the signed orders and the follow-up hearing date promptly. You cannot serve your own documents — use a process server or a trusted adult 18 or older who is not a party to the case.

If they have an attorney: Email the signed orders directly to the attorney. Email service is acceptable if you have verified their email address.
If they do not have an attorney: Serve the other party directly. Email requires their written, documented consent (CCP 1010.6). Without that consent, personal service is required.
Serve promptly. Once you pick up the signed orders, serve the other party as soon as possible. Temporary orders are not enforceable until the other party has been properly served — the sooner you serve, the sooner the orders take effect.
Temporary orders are only enforceable once the other party has been properly served. File the original and a copy of your Proof of Service (FL-330) with the court before your hearing. If you do not serve the other side correctly, the judge may not hear your case at the follow-up hearing.
11
If orders are denied

A denial does not mean your concern isn't valid. It may mean the judge felt the situation didn't meet the emergency threshold, or that the declaration lacked specific enough facts to support immediate action.

If you already have a regular hearing scheduled: Your ex parte denial does not affect that hearing. You will still appear on that date, and the judge will hear both sides at that time. The denied ex parte does not count against you — it simply means the judge did not find grounds for emergency relief before your existing hearing date.
If you do not have a hearing scheduled: File a regular Request for Order (FL-300) to address the issue on a standard hearing timeline. Use the Declaration Builder and AI Declaration Review to strengthen your declaration before refiling. If you have questions about the process, the Family Law Facilitator at your courthouse can help with forms and procedure — they cannot give legal advice, but they can point you in the right direction.
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